I have written about some of Matt Johnstone’s books before, and The Little Book of Resilience: How To Bounce Back From Adversity and Lead a Fulfilling Life is similar to those in many ways.
Resilience is a vague concept. It’s easy to say that resilience is the ability to recover from bad events, but hard to put into practice. What exactly does resilience look like? What can we actually do to increase resilience?
The book is divided into two parts. The first part explains what resilience is and why we need it. It provides examples of the kinds of life events which might cause us distress and why we feel how we do. The second part gives practical suggestions of ways to care for yourself and approach problems to improve resilience.
As I have read elsewhere, when we feel at our lowest we tend to overestimate the threats and underestimate our resources. This book discusses both. It is worth building up and keeping aware of our resources before things happen, so they are easier to reach for when we need them. It can also help to practice seeing things with curious, non-judgemental observation so we see threats more realistically when they arise. Johnstone’s book explains how to do these things. There is also a useful list of resources and helpful organisations in the back. If we know what our immediate reactions to things are likely to be in advance, we are more ready to deal with them and remain in control in the moment. A description of negative automatic thoughts and how to recognise them can be found here.
This isn’t a difficult book to read – it has short sentences and is filled throughout with the author’s charming illustrations. If you want a really meaty, in-depth book of instructions then this isn’t for you. Rather, this book is likely to be helpful and accessible when you feel overwhelmed and can’t think straight. Its simple, clear guidance is gentle and uplifting, and won’t take more than an hour or so to read.